When I first met the girl I my first thought was that she was not like other women. Granted there were other women around but she was not like them. Where their actions were what I usually see in women when they are around women who have a masculine energy, they start playing the game of, let’s see who can out talk each other and let’s see who can be the center of attention. She was not like that, she was quite, understated, which is what got my attention. I noticed this throughout the weekend I was there, and I liked it. Needless to say she was the perfect mix of sass and seriousness. I was thrilled upon coming back home that she sent me a message and wanted to talk with me, since I really didn’t get to say much to her that weekend, but that’s a whole other story. So we emailed each other, a lot. And then we moved on to calling each other and talking even more. When people met and say they talked about everything I always wonder what that means? Well, I now know. What was interesting to me was that even though we are interested in living and have lived in a power exchange dynamic, we didn’t talk about those things until two months in, that’s to say at least our own person experiences.
So here we are six months later in each other’s company. Her visit was supposed to be three weeks back in July but here we are in September. I’ve asked her to stay longer, because I believe people can’t really get to know a person in the span of three weeks. I’m not knocking anyone who thinks they can know a person fully in three week and will call bullshit (at least in my head while smiling and wishing them well). But I know me, and although we’ve talked for months on end before she came to visit and continue to talk on end hell we have conversation about how much we talk. I can say she, like me were telling the truth about ourselves, we are and continue to be the people we said we were those many months ago on the phone. That’s not to say we are skipping through a field of daisies, we are in New York and there are bound to be a pothole ore two you step in, but we talk about it then move on.
This will continue to be a work in progress, but the first step for us has been to thy own self be true, and thy must be true to the person thy wants to establish a power dynamic with as with.