What is your favorite and least favorite quirk in each other? What is your favorite leisure time activity? What are you looking forward to most in your Master’s program?
My least favorite quirk in Sir Raven is her tendency to rush through everything. It’s very hard for me to always do that both physically and in terms of trying to enjoy the errand or trip and mentally map out where we are. i prefer to get where we need to be and pause. Get a cup of coffee, relax for a minute or two. She prefers to treat the entire event like its an episode of The Amazing Race and we must rush willy nilly until we are home again. My most favorite quirk is our constantly silly behaviors with in jokes and our ability to play together. We both laugh at inappropriate times and events.
My favorite PG leisure activity is when we watch movies in bed together, which we do almost every Sunday. It comes after her breakfast in bed and my shower. i put on a fresh nightie and make snack plates. We usually have cheese, crackers, humus, grapes, summer sausage and wine. Sometimes, i bake or we have chips (for her) and popcorn (for me). i show love with food and time so stopping everything to spend two hours in bed is really welcomed at the end of a long week.
My favorite PG leisure activity outside of the house is when we go to the botanical gardens, because she slows down eventually and takes stunning photos. i am an ocean girl but the place that soothes her soul is around flowers and dirt. It’s really nice because we eventually stop rushing and just enjoy each other and the day.
What am I looking forward to most in my Master’s program? Um. Being done. Also, having the skill set i need to help people and learning because i really do love to learn.
i answered sophia’s questions but i did it in the comments. Oops. So, here are her questions and answers. In case anyone hasn’t noticed, sometimes the obvious thing to do is a bit lost on me. Heh. i rather doubt that happens to be Sir Raven’s favorite quirk of mine. lol.
Sheesh. Hard question.
Okay….so one hard thing about being Sir Raven’s slave is when i feel like i can do something to help her and am not allowed to. Sometimes, it is something practical like knowing she would like to have her favorite snack in the house, but i am not allowed out because of the safety factor. i obey. Sometimes, i am aware that she’d feel a hell of a lot better if she beat me but i can’t offer myself in that way. It’s always her option but i can’t influence it in any significant way and that is very hard for me.
The easiest thing about being her slave is trusting in her and believing in her because she shows me that i can safely do that every day. My Master is a wonderful protector and provider.
In the future, i’d like to have my Master’s degree and be making enough money that SR can retire early and in comfort. She’d like to have a home with a yard space for a garden, and i’d like to work to help make that happen. We both would really love to have a larger living space. We also would love to travel and see England and Paris.